http://www.showbizspy.com/article/187720/robert-pattinson-gets-advice-from-brad-pitt.html Wed, 15 Feb 2012 11:57:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 http://www.showbizspy.com/article/187720/robert-pattinson-gets-advice-from-brad-pitt.html#comment-37298 Carolyn Tue, 16 Jun 2009 03:20:38 +0000 http://www.showbizspy.com/article/187720/robert-pattinson-gets-advice-from-brad-pitt#comment-37298 PS I was married when I was almost 19 - and we really thought we had thought this through. Again, mistaking loyalty and passion and connection in the first years of our relationship - to mean that lifelong commitment was expected, because we had always been there for each other - feeling anything less was betrayal. Again, go for the dream, it does exist - when it's right it's right and eventually, you can have it all, the dream and the love of lifelong friends, after the hurt subsides, perspective comes through... PS I was married when I was almost 19 – and we really thought we had thought this through. Again, mistaking loyalty and passion and connection in the first years of our relationship – to mean that lifelong commitment was expected, because we had always been there for each other – feeling anything less was betrayal. Again, go for the dream, it does exist – when it’s right it’s right and eventually, you can have it all, the dream and the love of lifelong friends, after the hurt subsides, perspective comes through…

]]> http://www.showbizspy.com/article/187720/robert-pattinson-gets-advice-from-brad-pitt.html#comment-37297 Carolyn Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:59:04 +0000 http://www.showbizspy.com/article/187720/robert-pattinson-gets-advice-from-brad-pitt#comment-37297 Thank you Brad!!! I have hoped someone high profile would mentor Rob - There are obvious chemicals between them Kristen and Rob - it literally jumps off the screen and it's more than just sex, because Rob could literally have anyone he wants. They have been nothing but classy through this whole thing. Respecting each other and Mike. I know we don't literally know Rob & Kristen, but some of us are perceptive enough to know they are very mature in this crazy world they're in, kudos. I met my first husband at 15 and was divorced by 25 and he was a great guy - but big changes happen between 15 and 21 - and it's unrealistic to think you can stay committed in this age and not date more than one person. If Mike & her are meant to be - he'll give her some space, and Rob obviously has given her space. Now it's time for her to decide. Go with your heart Kristen, the biggest mistake is not believing - there is still real beautiful committed love out there, you deserve it. I was too afraid to step away from the security of my first major boyfriend and then husband - because I felt it was disloyal, but I have to tell you, we're both married to other people today but we'll be friends who love each other until the day we die, like Bella and Jake. You can have friends you love and maybe that is where you're meant to be right now. Don't let your future pass you by! As always, praying for you both, Peace. Thank you Brad!!! I have hoped someone high profile would mentor Rob – There are obvious chemicals between them Kristen and Rob – it literally jumps off the screen and it’s more than just sex, because Rob could literally have anyone he wants. They have been nothing but classy through this whole thing. Respecting each other and Mike. I know we don’t literally know Rob & Kristen, but some of us are perceptive enough to know they are very mature in this crazy world they’re in, kudos. I met my first husband at 15 and was divorced by 25 and he was a great guy – but big changes happen between 15 and 21 – and it’s unrealistic to think you can stay committed in this age and not date more than one person. If Mike & her are meant to be – he’ll give her some space, and Rob obviously has given her space. Now it’s time for her to decide. Go with your heart Kristen, the biggest mistake is not believing – there is still real beautiful committed love out there, you deserve it. I was too afraid to step away from the security of my first major boyfriend and then husband – because I felt it was disloyal, but I have to tell you, we’re both married to other people today but we’ll be friends who love each other until the day we die, like Bella and Jake. You can have friends you love and maybe that is where you’re meant to be right now. Don’t let your future pass you by! As always, praying for you both, Peace.

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