Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart ‘Obsessed With Online Gossip’

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Robert Pattinson and Kristen StewartRobert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart have become “obsessed” with reading internet gossip about their lives, insiders say.

The rumored couple — who are currently in Vancouver, Canada, shooting the third Twilight movie, Eclipse – apparently meet up in their hotel rooms, turn on their laptops, and find out what the bloggers are saying about them.

“Rob and Kristen never used to pay attention to what was being written about them in the media but in recent weeks, they’ve become fascinated by it.

“They’re obsessed with Googling themselves to find out what the bloggers and fans are saying about them. They find all the rumors hilarious!”

Kristen, 19, recently admitted that she likes to Google herself.

“The commenters are usually worse than the bloggers,” she told Allure magazine. “I know what people say about me.”

Stewart — who got lost en route to her Allure interview at a Beverly Hills hotel — said she’d check the internet later to “see what an idiot I looked like getting lost … you just Google, ‘Kristen Stewart, lost, directions.’ Or put the date in. I can’t believe I’m giving away how to Google me!”

Rob, 23, recently revealed that his mom often believes some of the nonsense that’s being written about her famous son.

“My mom says, ‘I can’t believe you did this’, and I’m like, ‘I didn’t do it’, she’s like, ‘yes you did, I know you did’,” Pattinson said.

“It was about swearing, I was like, ‘say something about sleeping with people and swearing and stuff, I wasn’t even in the city’.

“And she’s just like, ‘no, I don’t believe, I bet you did say that’.”



  • demons

    haha lolz i find it funny too, im glad that they are not taking all this so seriously and are just being themselves, I mean people like shannen doherty completely stopped using internet but im glad they are at least keeping some part of their normal lives and are not completely isolating themselves from the world

  • http://RobertPattinson kassidee coffman

    i love rob and krsten and,taylor it is them who make the movie come to life and people are butt but my family loved the book and the movie and it is the people who are in the movie that people want to see play the part!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!FAN:KASSIDEE LEE COFFMAN

  • katieg

    so excited about new moon next month. rob & kristen are great together & yes this nc twimom goggles them daily. just can’t help myself.

  • Riele Truly

    If Kristen is reading this here is some advice: wipe the nasty scowl off your face, lay off the bong,quit using the F bomb in every interview, and class up your act. To last in “the biz” people have to like you, really like you and you are coming across like a snarky, druggie, inarticulate, unlikeable,spoiled twit. Joan Jett wasn’t cool back in the day, why in the hell are you so obsessed with her? It’s embarrassing. How about a new female role model? What do Jodie Foster, Cate Blanchet, Meryl Streep, Kate Winslet have in common? Uh, besides being awesome oscar winning actresses, they don’t seem to have the papparazzi trailing them. They have class, speak in complete sentences and aren’t trying to channel an 80′s has been rocker. How about deciding one of those ladies is “the f-ing coolest!” as you would put it in your trash mouthed way. Seriously Kristen, start caring about what you project…right now, it has no appeal beyond the teeny bopper crowd and you will need the rest of us to have a real career.

  • karen

    I like and agree with your comments Riele Truly. Over the last few weeks I have had the opportunity to see some of Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart’s “older” movies. I truly believe that Robert has a chance at a very long and good career as an actor as he was awesome in “Little Ashes” and I am sure whatever other movies he will make in his future will be awesome as well. Robert is talented beyond words not only as an actor but as a musician as well. Now Kristen is another story. I have seen 3 of her movies and basically her demenor in all movies is the same (facial expressions, language, the way she speaks) and found nothing really exciting about her movies. Just because these 2 actors are protraying Stephanie Meyers characters from her AWESOME Saga books has really nothing to do with these two as it is Stephanie’s romantic novels that have entralled the world and Robert and Kristen just happened to be the two actors that were picked to portray the characters. It will be interesting to see New Moon and Eclipse and hopefully Breaking Dawn to see how Robert and Kristen’s portrayal of Edward and Bella goes along. From reading comments about the making of these movies I know they work hard, long hours but this is what they wanted. I’m a Twilight Grandma and love the stories and so do my younger granddaughters!

  • lauren

    hahaha i love reading all the bs about them just as much as they do it’s highly entertaining…im a fan and all but unlike the rest of u im not crazy and really dont give a crap what colour jackets rob and kristen are wearing or what they are eating
    but if rob and kristen do ever check these out i suggest for a good laugh ,thats if they enjoy sick and vuglar jokes lol

  • kyle

    where do they come up with this gossip on the magazines or is it true.

  • Lola

    They r both fools. And i hope they read this and realized they r unwanted on earth. Kristen is whore ass bitch. cant stand their asses. Hope they read this and disappear of the face of earth. discusting and irritating people. Just disappear. K my rank over.

  • Lola

    Agree with riele truly.u go gurl. teach this girl (kristen) manners. I cant still tolerate rob, but her. useless bitch. never mind. cant stand any of them. and i am not jeolous of them. i jus think they ugrateful

  • Lola

    Did u all watch the vmas. when a fan wanted to shake kristen hand, she just ignored her. Cant stand the bitch

  • DeniseL

    Here I go again..Karen and Riele Kristen is 19 years old, Rob is 23. How can you compare Kristen to the actresses above? Give this girl a chance. You all need to lay off both these two and I hope they both are reading this and laughing. You all have nothing better to do with your lives but criticize others. I can assure you all if Kristen and Rob get through this Twilight series hype, which I think they will…you will see them continue with their craft. Kristen can easily become a Meryl, Kate, Cate and Jodie in the future. The same with Rob he will be up there with Leo,Johnny, Tom and George. You all need to think back on all your behaviors at 19 and 23 and imagine the world they are in and how you would handle it all. All I can say to both of them. Stay strong…and you thus far are handling all this like pros. Good luck to you both..I will continue to watch these blogs and add my

  • nattaz

    Jeez! you guys are hard out!! listen to what you are saying! this is her style, you can’t just come out and tell someone the way they dress, talk, act and think is wrong!! fricken look back, she has been like this for a long time!!! so what she doesn’t wear a fricken dress everyday! – Do you?! How would you like it if someone turned around and labelled you and told you that it was wrong?! i don’t think you are in any place to comment that someone’s identity is wrong!
    Also Lola, if you dislike them so much – why the hell are you checking out thier internet articles?! IDIOT!!!

  • Cassie

    I agree with you non-haters. These people(Rob and Kristen) are just trying to do their jobs. Who are you to judge them? I think they are doing a great job with their filming and acting. I’m sure no everyone was perfect when they first started, it takes years to become what Jodie Foster is or any of the other actors you compare them to. If it is true that they come and read the blogging. I am a huge fan and hope that they continue acting so I can watch all of their movies. I look forward to the release of New Moon and Eclipse. To Kristen and Rob, Good luck and Fuck all these people that don’t have shit to say!

  • Rachel

    who the hell do you people think you are? kristen is a breath of fresh air in a boring and scripted hollywood. all these actresses are prepped on what to say, what to do and what not to do. they have no personality. kristen is down to earth and she knows her own mind, im sure she’s had to put up with a lot of shit from you people who think you can judge others when you all have your flaws. nobody’s perfect, LEAST of all you! the only reason you hate kristen is because she’s different, she’s quirky and she says what SHE thinks, not what she’s been told to say. You dont know how to react to her because she’s not like the other hollywood bores so you’re automatic response is “she’s a useless bitch”. you people are so narrow minded! so she swears all the time uh big deal most people do! and riele truly (one of the most arrogant comments i have ever read) kristen most certainly does not need people like you to have a real career. she doesn’t need people who think they’re better than everyone else, who are disgusted by swearing and who think that you have to be just like everyone else to succeed? no she doesn’t need you she needs the real people who understand that everyones different and you can’t expect people to conform all the time! if kristen does read this then i want to say don’t ever change because people should ALWAYS be themselves, who cares if people don’t like it! and eh if you hate her so much wtf are you doing reading articles about her!

  • Angela!!

    wow i see what Kristen means “the commenters are usually worse than the bloggers”. we all just need to back off. im sure you dont like people telling you who you should look up to or what you should dress like. she is just a person like the every other 6 million people on this sad planet.

    im not saying anyone of the previous commenters opinions is wrong im just trying to say that she has an opinion too. besides she is still very young.

  • E

    It’s bizarre what people write about other people they don’t know. What about Rob’s music, anyone got any views on that?

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  • http://showbidspy Sue Moyle

    Well i love Rob i’ve been listerning too his music and WOW what a musician. I didn’t expect him to have such a exceptional voice “i love it” ;-) . I think he should think about cutting an album. That is when he gets time lol Arh bless him. What a gifted guy and hes English Wooohoo. And i would like to take this opportunity to say “thank you so much for all of your chemistry in the Film Twilight.What actors you both are,i love you both. Good luck for a sell out with New Moon,can’t wait and remember keep it real and don’t listern to negative remarks.Everyone in show biz has them ,they come from bitter twisted people. Both of you are magnificent and Rob England loves you Mwaah xxx

  • DeniseL

    If you and reading this have more fans than you know. Do not pay any attention to the negative and keep positive. The same goes with Rob. Learn your craft and move on. Keep true who you are and always stay true to your fans. They, as well as your family will get you thru all this hype. You both are my children’s ages and you both seem to be grounded and humble keep it that way. Keep your eye on the acting and music and ignore all the rest. I look forward to seeing New Moon and the rest of the Twilight movies as well as your other movies. :)

  • Fely Baza

    I think that Kristen & Rob are doing a fantastic job! I am a Twilight Addict and hope to recover soon. Nonetheless, I do not regret being one. I have read all the books more than once. I hope that they make a Breaking Dawn movie. Adice to both of them: Live your life they way you want to and don’t feel that you owe anyone an explanation. As long as you are both happy, that is all that matters. And to all the haters, you know where you can GO…to****!

  • Fely Baza

    I think that Kristen & Rob are doing a fantastic job! I am a Twilight Addict and hope to recover soon. Nonetheless, I do not regret being one. I have read all the books more than once. I hope that they make a Breaking Dawn movie. Advice to both of them: Live your life they way you want to and don’t feel that you owe anyone an explanation. As long as you are both happy, that is all that matters. And to all the haters, you know where you can GO…to****!

  • PJ

    Well, rumor or not, Kristen and Robert look very good together on-screen and off-screen.

    I do wish that as much as I’d love for them to get together in real life, live happily ever after – whether it be as friends or more than that, how I’d wish that the two would be given space and privacy that every single human being needs.

    I also wish that those who don’t want the two to end up together to stop demonizing either one of them. They’re down-to-earth people who made a success for themselves in a business that is vicious and threatens to warp everything that’s good in a person…and so far, they’re doing their best to manage the fame while keeping true to themselves.

    It makes my head shake when I see gossip that warps what their co-stars say about them.

    For short, if they are a couple then let them tell that to us in their own time…or if people dare ask and get a “no” then let them have their space for a little while. And most especially don’t make good people look bad by spreading vicious and untrue gossip just because they said they’re not a couple.

  • Maddie

    I luv u Robert & Kristen u guyz r so cute! can’t wait ‘new moon’ (send me tickets! lol) Robert u r so talented & i gess u’r looks are a bouns (drop dead gourges!!!!!) Kristen u’r pritty 2 & so lucky 2 have Robert as u’r BF:)luv u guyz stay cute & stay 2gether!!!! Peace:)

  • karen

    love u both Robert & Kristen……… you are doing a fabulous job on the Twilight movies and hope all your fans realize how hard to both have worked on these movies. U both look cute together and who wouldn’t believe you are not a couple! I wish you all the best in your careers and stay strong and don’t listen to the negative crap people are dishing out…… they don’t know any better.

  • Kerri

    I know that the people on here probably don’t want to here what I have to say, but here goes. I know that just about everyone loves twilight and they love Kristen and Rob Pattinson, but they are just ordinary people like everyone else. They need privacy when they want it. I feel really sorry for them, that everything that they do or say is made into front page news. I can only imagine how Rob feels. It was like he turned into a star overnight. It would scare the crap out of me if I had people screaming and clawing at me. I am really glad that they made the movie together though. They do have a certain chemistry with each other. The movie is about true love finding one another. It just happens to be a vampire and a mortal. The one thing that makes the movie so attractive is the forbidden love, and how much they love each other. I absolutely love the movie. And I know that this sounds stupid, but I had a really close person to me pass away a couple of years ago, and when I first watched twilight it reminded me of the way me and him loved each other. He was my Edward. But anyway, I think that Bella and Edward made this story what it is because of their love for one another. But Kristen isnt really Bella, and Rob isnt really Edward. They have their own lives ( Kristen & Rob). They might have a connection with their characters, but thats as far as it goes. I think that Kristen has her own style, just like teenagers do. And I think that her style suits her. I also think that Rob has his own style. It suits him well also. Well the only thing that I have to say to the both of you, if you are reading this is that if you ever need to just get away from all the crap of hollywood and take a break, dont tell anyone about it. Not even the people you trust the most. Just go, and enjoy your time the way you want to. Good luck to the both of you. And never let the pressure get to you. Bye

  • angela

    i’m glad they find it funny…
    cuz if it was me i would have gone insane…

  • Jeannie

    Hey Robert,
    There is a song by John Mayer called “Stop This Train” (live version) that is so great. I think you would really appreciate the chord progressions and lyrics. Also, there is a band called “The Great Fiction” that is very talented. You should go to their myspace and check out the song “Body Urge” and others as well. The band Silverchair is always always great to listen to if you want originality and lyrical depth. Two great songs by Silverchair are “Ana’s Song” (accousitc version is fantastic) and “Tuna in the Brine” live version from the Young Modern Launch concert on youtube. I hope you are getting along well. The easiest way to lose yourself in the environment that you are in is to start to compromise who you are for love, money or success. Please don’t ever do that. It is better to have less money and keep your integrity than to start on that well traveled road of compromise and self betrayal. Take care and keep it real always. P.S. You have an attractive profile. Jeannie

  • Marleen Piscador

    First of all thank you both for the excellent work for bringing the books to life. I had to send the fourth book from England to Belgium for a friend of my friend and that is how I discovered the books. This last holiday in Austria (my husband is austrian) I couldn’t stop reading them. ‘The Twilight saga’ phenomenon did me think back of the Romeo&Juliet saga from Zeffirelli in ’68.
    Back then I was 14 years old and also smitten with the film.
    I’am not googling for a long time but I am glad I started it and so I came across the two actors Olivia Hussey and Leonard Whiting.
    Kristen did me think of Olivia Hussey in fact she has also the natural beauty and she is a bit older now than was Olivia back then. Robert is also very charming and has an attractive personality to me and you both together have an amazing chemistry. The way you both are handling things is amazing because I saw here in Reading Peter Andres album signing from far away and couldn’t stand the hysteria and screaming girls, why do they have to scream so hard…. Please continue to keep your cool because it must be very hard to go through if you can’t enjoy normal things you want to do.
    I’am looking forward to the other films and wish you all the best.
    Lots of love

  • Sarabear

    First, THIS WEBSITE: DO NOT SEND ME ANY E-MAILS REGARDING THIS OR ANY OTHER ARTICLES!!!!! That said, this will hopefully be read by Kristen Stewart. I read article in Allure Mag. It was great!! Too funny that you stopped the pappz & asked for directions. If they are going to follow you every minute of the day, why not?! I was concerned though when you mentioned how many vehicles were in pursuit of you. Don’t let it get to you…don’t try to run from them…hope you understand what I’m saying w/o saying it…you are handling yourself very well in my opinion. So glad to hear that you read these blogs & comments & seem to take it in stride. I saw you in “Catch that Kid” first. Have seen a few other movies you have done.

  • Sarabear

    Again, I ask that I receive no e-mails related to this comment or otherwise!! Not sure what keystrokes made my comment appear above but I wanted to add to Kristen: You nailed your performance as Bella!!

  • Cheri

    I love the Twilight Saga and am looking foward to the rest of the movies. Rob and Kristen have done a great job along with many others in the movie. I happen to love Joan Jett and I am so excited that Kristen is portraying her! I can’t wait to see The Runaway’s!!

  • Rhian Webb

    Riele Truly – if your reading this, Kristen Stewart, doesn’t have to do anything, as she is a normal person, like everyone else in this world, but she just had a cool job, just because, she is no barbie, who likes to go and get skin cancer, plaster her face in make up, and is not bothered about impressing people, then i don’t see how you have a right just to say things like this! Do people tell you what to do and you follow their every command? And if you hate Kristen so much, why do you ever bother to waste your time looking at these pages and waste even more time by writing a pointless comments, which i dout she would read anyway. Joan Jett is cool, next you will be saying someone like Katie Price or Victoria Beckham are any better, with there gorgeous orange fake tan, Plastic boobs? haven’t you noticed the way most celebrities look in a picture after the paparazzi have taken their picture? There annoyed with cameras always in their face, want a little privacy…. Jeez Riele Truly you really are one loved person on here, if you havent got anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all, hasn’t anyone ever taught you that?
    Kristen and Robb, your amazing to watch on screen, I love how, your totally different from all the other celebrities and like to be yourself, I’d say your pretty good role models, as you don’t go to the extreme to make yourself noticed.
    Can’t wait to watch the other Twilight films, and all the other stuff you have got going in the future! Good Luck xxx

  • Jessi

    Well if they want 2 find out what people r saying about them, then do it. Some people will put there 2 cents worth in and make someone mad. I think they have a right to there private lives. There hollywood lives r no different. I love all the Twilight movies and books. I think they’ve done wonderful jobs on the movies so far. So people should mind there own business and don’t worry about what they’re doing or who they’re dating.

  • dorlocita

    People want to know everything about Kristen and Robert. So, the rag mags give people drama and lies mixed with half truths. Bah! Dorlocita says – boogies do-do to rag mags & made up stories!

  • Jennifer

    I just thinks it’s funny that so many people that leave comments can’t spell!

  • briana

    The comments r so funny. don’t like kristen or rob. but negativity on websites towards them r pretty dam funny. Cant still stand twilight. Love books. hate movie. my science teacher even said rob ruined the whole movie for her. he isn’t a great actor i guess. once again LOL if kristen and rob r reading these.

  • BrookeLake

    Lola your a Bitch as for you Riele your to fuck you selfrightous bitch she 19 not 40 and who the fuck do thank you are. I like to see you do what she doing at 19.

  • sue

    hahahahahaha to ROBSTEN!!!! hahahahahahaha….

  • nupuii

    thank GOD..hey guys..don’t get stuck up in the fake world k, i wish you all the guys rock!!!!i’m ya biggest fan..

  • Smd

    I wish everyone would leave them alone. While I am sure they appreciate some of the opportunities this movie sage has given them both, it is just a job afterall.

  • wuwufrau

    love you all

  • Rose

    I am a high school English teacher and I have read the Twilight Saga. I have even paired Twilight with Romeo and Juliet and my students loved it. On a personal note, Emerson said, “to be a nonconformist is to be true to yourself”. Rob, Kristen, you are nonconformists and please stay that way. You are both extremely talented actors. I have seen other movies you both have been in and your versitility with the characters you portray is amazing. Don’t let the media hype or the negativity in some of the comments upset you. Just continue to be yourselves. It is no one’s business what you do or don’t do. Both of you have worked hard to get where you are now. Keep up the great work.

  • Maria

    Rhian Webb.

    It is really wrong to judge a person by looking at his/her outer looks. Therefore,it should be wrong to judge Victoria Beckham looking at her fake tan and plastic face- boobs. Honestly, even though i do not like women who are so snobby, i have never seen Victoria Beckham being impolite or unkind to fans or paparazzi or towards other media people. Therefore, you are wrong to judge her on these counts.To be able to do that, you should have seen her talk, act or behave in a wrong way sometime- not even sometime – most of the time. A person can look like a bum but can be well educated and well mannered, as well as another can be a total Audrey Hepburn but misbehave. To understand that a person is a natural , you should see her/him talk , act, and behave well. Kristen in my opinion fails in all of them. She can be a good or a bad actress, that would not be her fault if she skyrocketed in 5 days time and cannot be judged for that. On the other hand, she can be judged depending on her bad manners,impolite behavior,bad jokes and use of bad language to the press. I also accept that she looks like a trailer trash , but i think she tries hard to look that way and is actually proud of it. A natural person who is cool and careless, would not be proud of her/his bad looks but wouldn’t change it because of other people. Therefore, judging a person depending on how many plastic surgeries she had, and how many times she has been to the tanning salon to look orange is as wrong as judging another one who looks dirty and careless. The thing we are saying here is that she misbehaves all the time and that counts.

  • ForHerOwnGood

    I have a daughter a bit younger than Kristen and have told her exactly what I would tell Kristen if she were my daughter: The foul mouth is not “cool” nor cute and, for that matter, it is quite the conformist’s way of speaking, not the other way round.

    Kristen is a beautiful young girl with everything going for her. I do agree, however, that the foul language detracts from her overall beauty and intelligence. Supposedly, people who lack a decent vocabulary tend to compensate by using profanity. Which is all the more puzzling since Kristen seems to have a good vocabulary, however, she tends to get flustered and nervous during interviews.

    As for Kristen’s acting, I can’t find fault with it. So much of acting comes from one’s expressions and eyes. You’ve heard the expression – pardon the pun – “the eyes have it…” well, Kristen’s got it. She’ll never lack acting jobs.

  • Ting

    They are so cute together that what I think. And I sometimes hope to see them as a real couple in their real lives. But they have their own ways. So let it be….


    I love Kristen and think she’s pretty, smart and a great actor. But I wish she’d speak without using all the common language that unrefined people use. If she’s unconventional and her own person, her speech should reflect as much.

  • http://yahoo just me

    Leave them alone. They both are great actors and should be praised for the work they do. Just stay out of their personal life. I know some people just can’t, but think about it, its their life not yours. I am so happy they are together and that they have done the “Twilight sagas” They have brought the world to life and I love their work.

  • briana

    I agree with maria and forherowngood. LOL to people protecting kristen from criticism. u all dont know r and u defending her.

  • ciera

    do u peaple have any idea what they have to go through every day, peaple chaseing them peaple makeing rumors aboout them paprazzi every day all up in ur face. they are wonderful actors and i love them both i just wish peaple would leave them alone give them some breathing room and just let them live their lives.stop talking trash and just shut ur mouth and leave them be.
    thank you

  • lola

    ahahah this makes me laugh !!!
    will you people lay back from Kristen Stewart and let her be
    its just her way of style and who gives you the right to change a pearson..its not like you never swear or have your *slopy days*
    any ways
    the book is nice Not because of the charecters (althought thats also important) but because of the discription
    its rare to have a book so descriptive and INTRESING AT THE SAME TIME

  • NINA

    ahahah this makes me laugh !!!
    will you people lay back from Kristen Stewart and let her be
    its just her way of style and who gives you the right to change a pearson..its not like you never swear or have your *slopy days*
    any ways
    the book is nice Not because of the charecters (althought thats also important) but because of the discription
    its rare to have a book so descriptive and INTRESING AT THE SAME TIME

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  • u

    leave the girl alone. So what if you think shes rude. Shes 19 years old and new to stardom so maybe you all should try to put yourself in her shoes. What would you do if millions of people criticized your every move?

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  • Marleen Piscador

    Hiya Kristen & Rob

  • Marleen Piscador

    Hiya Kristen & Rob,
    Congratulations with your work and personal lifes.
    I want to share a story with you.
    My husband has been bitten by a former girlfriend when he finished it. He had to have an injection against tetanos as you know is required in such cases.
    When I finished with a former boyfriend he pushed me and I had a commotion. You see it can happen without asking for it.
    If it is true that marriage is on the agenda I think it is to be appreciated and an honour to be asked and real love is in the air.
    I wish you both all the best for the future
    A big hug from someone who could be your parent hahahaha

  • sharon

    Ok all you kids need to take a time out! Stop with the Kristen hating. You sound like a bunch of jealous witches. If Kristen reads this, I want her to know that I the most intelligent thing she ever did was express a desire to go to University. That’s where you grow as a person and learn stuff. I think it’s very sharp of you to want to learn to write. It’s not an easy gig, but you strike me as the type of girl that can just about anything that you set your mind to doing.
    But seriously….clean up your act. White trash does not look good on you….I’m just sayin’…………

  • ?

    Kristen needs a lot of help. She needs to learn to behave. She needs to learn how to just deal with others from day to day. She needs to grow up so much. How do you do this? For starters you don’t go around with a big chip on your shoulders. You don’t flip off everyone under the sun just because they are breathing the same air as you. It is clear she needs to learn to be a nice person. I am not talking about becoming Strawberry shortcake, just lay off the bitchiness. Lay of the curse words. Lay off the drugs and clean up your looks and your speech. At 20 years old she should have already learned her manners. Most learn that in pre-school! If she wants to becoming a real actor, go get some acting classes! I don’t think she wants to grow as a person because she seems to think herself so deep. She can just go on living in never never land with Peter Pan ;)