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SANDRA BULLOCK: JESSE JAMES TOLD SANDRA BULLOCK ABOUT HIS ENGAGEMENT TO KAT VON D

Posted by Adam

Friday January 21, 2011

Sandra BullockSANDRA Bullock knew about Jesse James’ engagement to Kat Von D before he announced it yesterday.

The Blind Side actress split from the motorcycle entrepreneur in March last year after he had an affair with tattoo model Michelle ‘Bombshell’ McGee and friends say he warned his former wife about his impending nuptials to avoid upsetting her.

“It may seem like only yesterday that Jesse and Sandra split, but for her, life has changed so much, that it seems like ages ago,” a source told PopEater.

“Sandra knew it was coming, and she was ready.”

Meanwhile it has been revealed tattoo artist Kat’s ring was designed by jeweler Neil Lane — who also created Sandra’s wedding ring — and is a four-carat platinum and diamond ring.

“It’s a beautiful ring set with a central round diamond in the middle with smaller surrounding diamonds for an overall dome shape. It has a delicate filigree pattern with very pretty scroll-work,” he said.

Jesse — whose divorce from Sandra was finalized last June — revealed his happiness at the engagement yesterday.

“2010 was actually the best year of my life because I fell in love with my best friend. An amazing woman who stood behind me when the world turned their backs,” he said.

While some people have questioned his tact, this is not the first time 41-year-old Jesse has hinted his marriage to Sandra was not entirely happy.

Writing on his blog in December, he said, “From a distance I appeared to have it all, beautiful wife, Amazing kids, Awesome home, but if you got close enough to really see me? I was empty inside. My spirit and soul were gone.”

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  • Rachel

    Does anyone actually think this little hitchment will last???

    • DAVID

      CELEBRITIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      Jesse;WHy put your private life to the public? There is no law in the US i know of that forces marriage!!!! If you were not happy in your marriage, you could’ve been honest with Sandra. Why put your private life out there? Now you are being potrayed as a fool coz of the silly move!Sandra might not be innocent herself! THAT’S WHY I RESPECT JAY-Z AND BEYOCE!!-PRIVATE MEANS PRIVATE.

    • Al Collins

      Hah! Jesse has had more wives than he has had motorcycles. He had better change his ways fast. With the custom motorcycle industry falling flat on it’s face because of the economy, even Jesse will soon feel the pinch of so many ex-wives & child support payments.

    • ohjeez

      nope and I’m gonna tell you why; he said that Kat was the only person who liked him in 2010- and that is why he’s marrying her. plus he’s a cheater; they very rarely change.

    • bayer368

      LOL …NO WAY!! Jesse clearly has issues that reach far beyond whomever he’s doing at the time! Celebrity or not! Until Jesse fixes himself, he won’t be happy …and he will continue to plow thru women! I think Sandra will be far happier in the long run without him. She should be quite thrilled if she hasn’t caught anything from that mess!

  • Maribell

    makes great tabloid fodder doesn’t it?

  • brooklyngrlinfla

    He is such a schmuk and no this relationship is not going to work, she’s just as bad as he is in the relationship department. And ummm why is he complaining about an empty soul, when Sandra was helping him with his kids he was all good and when he went into Sex Rehab he was all apologetic. He need to get a life and more psychiatric help.

    • Bob

      He’s been married 3 times. He cheated on ALL of his wives – before they were engaged, while they were engaged, and after they got married. He will never change. He’ll get bored real quick.

  • Deb

    He’s been married four times, whats that tell you..
    Sandra is beautiful..

  • Suzy

    He’s a d-bag and she’s got a foot and a half on the Dark Side of the Hokey Pokey. They deserve each other.

    • Roz

      Totally agree,he is a player, cheater and can not be trusted, not to mention he is so ugly.

  • ICYBLUE

    Sandra wasted time & energy with a loser like that, besides he’s ugly, uggg.

  • Lulu Lee

    She’s nuts to marry him, but her 15 minutes of fame is ticking, yes?

  • Lulu Lee

    KVD.

  • Jobie

    Really every one should leave him alone. I never understood why he was with Sandra Bullock to begin with and this current woman seems more his type. He was wrong to cheat, and he knows that (though I don’t buy the sex addiction bs) but it seems people won’t just leave him alone & let him be the normal guy that he is. Sandra has moved on so should the rest of the world.

  • http://Yahoo Diane

    You can put lipstick on a pig, you can even put a ring on a pig…..but after all the cheatings said and done….they are still both….pigs. Neither one of them has a clue what LOVE is!!

    • jf

      Don’t be mean to pigs! :-)

  • Alisha

    and we care about his engagement because….?

  • hautedesigner

    Why is everyone so judgemental and perfect…we all make mistakes and learn from them. Everyone deserves happiness reguardless of past relationships. Learn to forgive and dont judge b/c I’m sure if your dirty laundry was out there for everyone to see you’d smell a little too.

    • http://Yahoo Diane

      Ever heard of a track record? Wife number 4????? Pretty bad odds no matter how much laundry someone else has! Hes a cheater and that wont change just because the wife does!

  • Bob

    It won’t last. He cheated on ALL of his wives. He was cheated on them before they got married, while they were engaged, and after they got married. He’s been married 3 times. Kat will be the 4th wife. This guy is LOSER. Kat is BRAIN DEAD too. She can’t tame cheater. She’ll get the biggest slap on her face when he cheats on her. Right now they’re on a high. But reality will come crashing down on her. Then she’ll go running back to Nikki Six. LOL!!!

  • Bob

    It won’t last. He cheated on ALL of his wives. He was cheating on them before they got married, while they were engaged, and after they got married. He’s been married 3 times. Kat will be the 4th wife. This guy is LOSER. Kat is BRAIN DEAD too. She can’t tame cheater. She’ll get the biggest slap on her face when he cheats on her. Right now they’re on a high. But reality will come crashing down on her. Then she’ll go running back to Nikki Six. LOL!!!

  • dave

    “my spirit and sould where gone” lmao, Jesse you still have no spirit and soul as you sold it to the devil himself you shmuck.

    • Nina32

      Its all publicity people if kat an jesse had been such ‘good’ friends for years she knows all about him so she knows what to expect …and low class tatooed whore?? LMFAO tats yes whore? How do you know she is or isnt? I bet she makes a hellva lot more then you ever will I’m personally not into tats but I have watched her show and she is one damn good artist with alot of talent…

  • Nene

    Jesse…what a douchbag…Cheating on his wife and then blaming her. All he deserve is a low class tatooed whore!

  • Bob

    If he loves Kat so much, then why did he move to Texas? He wants the whole cake and eat it too.

  • http://verizon kathy

    I THINK YOUR RIGHT.HOWEVER,HOPEFULLY JESSE HAS WARNED KAT HE WAS GOING TO,YES,CHEAT ON HER. THAT WAY SHE ALREADY KNOWS SO NO SURPRISE’S.
    THEY’D BOTH BE SMART AND HAVE A OPEN MARRIAGE. THAT WAY NO ONE GETS HURT AND NO DIVORCE.

    • http://Yahoo Diane

      How about dont get married in the first damn place, and live your life honestly. Say…hey I cheat, I wont marry you… take me as I am! Then maybe, just maybe, no one gets hurt….with both parties…Eyes Wide Open!

  • Liz

    I remember some time ago, when she first married Jesse… She was being interviewed on Letterman, and she recounted how she didn’t want to go out with him, and he had to really pursue her hard to get her to change her mind. All I have to say to that is: Honey, a woman’s first instincts are usually always right; trust them, and don’t stray from them. They are there to help and guide you…

  • Jen

    I would love to wake up next to a man every day who has cheated on all his wives, all his girlfriends and is never happy! How sad she thinks she’s the ONE!

  • Kat

    I think that Sandy has learned a very important lesson.
    DO NOT DISCUSS/SHARE PERSONAL AFFAIRS WITH THE PUBLIC.

  • Jan

    All of this blame is fear…Jesse needs some long term therapy to understand the cause and affect of his actions on those around him. Making the statement: “From the outside it looked like I had it all….but I was dead inside”….that’s a choice on his part to look at his life with fear vs. love & happiness.

  • Nate

    JessW..Jesse….So dumb dude..at your age you need to try to stick to one woman because the equipment is shutting down….what a dud…YOU LEFT SANDRA BULLOCK

  • SANDRA BULLOCK rocks!

    I love Sandra !! jesse is a dog. who cares what he does. and cat’s a loser too.

  • TT

    Say good riddance to this jerk Sandra!

    Why would you or any women even consider joining gene pools with a dude that has a “MASS MURDERING – SERIAL KILLER- BANK & TRAIN ROBBER IN IT’s linage”?

    Jesse James was directly and indirectly responsible for say, at least 1 personal murder, and as many as say the killings of maybe 10+ other individuals on top of being a train and bank robber, after his civil war, war-time endeavourers.

    Oh well one bad marriage down, pick yer self up and get back on that horse, and if ya like that kind of junk yard dog attraction to your future genetic heritage, keep looking maybe you’ll find offspring of a;
    Charles Starkweather, Arthur Shawcross, Tommy Lynn Sells, David Parker Ray, Herbert Mullin, Henry Lee Lucas, Ed Gein, John Wayne Gacy, and if noth’n else, why not go for a little Al Capone and there just got’s to be some old Adolph Hitler DNA a-float’n around out there in the en-bio-mental ether that you could happily combine with.

    Or maybe try your local neighborhood sperm bank for a shot and a blast of wacko-In vetro, be sure to ask them for the all star platter from donors the likes of Ted Bundy, the ever popular Richard Ramirez, Dennis Rader, Jeffrey Dahmer, or good o’l Charlie Manson.

    So don’t fret, there are still plenty of relationship horizons out there for ya to regret….

    Andy Rooney, where are you when we need ya!
    If ya haven’t written about this one yet you’re sure missing a good one.

    I don’t get it future mothers of America, what are you thinking.

  • Carol

    Some “men” just dont have what it takes to hold on to a good women, whether it be Sandra Bullock or Kat….Jesse dont have what it takes. Kat will see that soon too. I think she is smart and confident in business, but in relationships she seems a bit weak, and will fall in love wlith the first guy that comes along and says ” I love you Kat, you stood beside me when no one else did”….well, guess what Kat, he messed up and will always mess up, hence his proven past, and there is a major reason why no one stands by him anymore…he has lost so many peoples trust, and at this point, he deserves no ones trust…especially not yours. but ya know what, only you will discover this. really follow your heart and more importantly your instincts!

  • lisa

    Let trash be with trash. Sandra is stunning and kind and a freaking Oscar winner. She is better then those two disgusting wannabe celebrities.

  • John

    What’s wrong with you Jesse? Most men (including me) would give up thier world to wake up next to Sandra and he prefers walking billbords. Jesse your STUPID

  • Matt

    “The world turned their back on me.” Well, that’s what happens when you mistreat your wife. Such bs, and now he’s trying to rationalize his bahavior by saying he wasn’t really happy. A decent human being would’ve been honest with their partner and said something, rather than trying to get a piece on the side. Bullock asked for it by marrying that asshole.

  • penny

    ummm.. who cares about the freaks (jesse and kat)

  • Hairy

    Ok, honestly, who needs to hear someone’s blog about their inner most feelings about their marriage. “Oh, I thought I had it all but it was empty” No one needs to know that crap and you think you are so self-important that that makes up for the fact that you are a dog and cheated on your beautiful wife. Admit it, she dumped you because of what you did and no one really cares about some supposedly deep feelings about the emptiness of your marriage and the reasons you slept with a bunch of tramps. I never cared for Sandra Bullock as an actress, but I am so impressed with the way she handled herself during all of this that I totally want to watch all of her movies. Class act, Sandy. White trash, whatever your name is: Jarod? Jason? whatever…loser.

  • AR

    Then why did he do everything he could to get back with Sandra Bullock? Doesn’t sound as bad as he hints it to be.

  • nyc_apt_sitter

    guess all the other hookers said NO

    she is a skank…like turdshell mcgee

  • Hairy

    Ok, but, OOOH I’d love to be an apt sitter in NYC. Stay in any cool places? I love the west village. Wishin I was there now…

  • Lee

    Why do we care about this guy??? He cheated on a beautiful, wonderful, successful woman that was 100Xtimes better then he will ever be! Why can’t we read about news that brings joy to peoples lives??

  • rob

    come on people…. i know jesse is no posterboy for morals or morality in general. but sandra is just better at keeping her skeletons in the closet, and the more you learn about her she isnt much better…. but to look at all the flaws of that match up i thought the meshed well for a time. it came down to the differences like always. and all the hypocrites out there im sorry but yeah jesse got caught in a affair i get it bad jesse…. sandra got paid to make out with guys on screen does that mean it was a lesser offense because it was pretend or in a script? you cant justify either party. but better it end in a better way than it could have. no obvious downward spiral and such it was quick and painless!

    • ohjeez

      are you frickin for real?? you are comparing a person doing their job to a man who told his mistress that he was ending his marriage? you are aware that the reason the mistress spilled the beans in the first place is because she saw them together at the Oscars, right?? mismatch or not- man up, tell your wife you want out and leave!!! cheating is never acceptable. what she does onscreen is a job, brainiac……

    • http://Yahoo Diane

      Rob?….your an Idiot!

  • peoplearesheep

    Let’s see…
    1. Jesse and Sandra’s marriage served it’s purpose…to increase interest in each of them.
    2. Jesse’s bikes suck.
    3. Sandra’s acting sucks.
    4. Adopting 3rd world babies is only a PR tool, a trend only…just like purse dogs.
    5. In the grand scheme of things, these two serve no purpose for bettering the world.
    6. We all (including I) have lost brain cells just reading about these two.

    Now, log off the gossip sites and your FB acct, pick up ome classic literature, listen to a classic piece peformed by a symphony or even learn a new skill and stop wasting your time reading about ‘celebrities’. They don’t care about you nor the world so why should you about them?

    • lv

      do you consider new orleans a “third world’ country?

      wth

    • http://Yahoo Diane

      Then why are you logged on here reading about “celebrities”?

  • http://yahoo shelia

    Sandra everyone goes dumpster diving once. Thank God you put out the trash. Jesse your stupid I’m a straight woman and even I wouldn’t leave Sandra Bullock.

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    Sandra brings home more bread than almost any actress and, yet she still has a failed marriage. Guess money and fame isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

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  • http://facebook rita

    JESEE IS WITH THE RIGHT WOMAN NOW. TRASH BELONGS WITH IN A GARBAGE CAN. SANDRA WAS WAY TOO CLASSY AND GORGEOUS FOR HIM.AND IF HE WASN’T HAPPY WITH HER THERE ARE CLASSIER WAYS TO END IT….HAVE SOME DAMN CLASS ASSHOLE!

  • roger

    All men cheat. that’s a fact of life. if you think your significant other doesn’t, he’s lying, so don’t jump on Jesse’s back. He’s just doing what guys do…boys will be boys

    • mary

      you guys say boys will be boys right? well just remember one thing guys . will you say the same thing when they do that to your daughter’s , sister’s and mother’s.

  • mandy

    I believe his soul was gone way before he even met Sandra Bullock. Geez he is such an a-hole. I hope he fades away and takes his new misses to be with him.

  • Danggg

    Insensitive; would be the first word to come to mind

  • Farley

    Sandra Bullock. What kind of dope marries a tattoo victim? She could have done just as well with a carnival worker or ex con.

  • Kate

    There are a lot of men who only care what happens in bed. They have no idea what makes a good marriage, or care to learn.

    • http://showbizspy cristell martinez

      “THEY ARE BOTH LOSERS JESSE AND KAT” POOR CHILDREN DON’T STAND A CHANCE TO A STABLE LIFE!

  • lizgross

    I pray Sandra didn’t get aids. That prick.

  • Android

    Does anyone really care about Jessie James or Sandra Bullock or Kat Von D? Trust me, they don’t care about us. Who cares if they get married a hundred more times. Will it affect our lives at all?

  • stacia kendt

    Does anyone think she resembles Sandra?

    • http://Yahoo Diane

      NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

  • Dove

    It was a bit surprising that Bullock married this foul. I am unsure what she was thinking. Perhaps it was a stunt for attention. My husband and I are big fans and we wish her the best with baby Louie.

    However, there is always a bright side. If you haven’t tried Sandra’s sister Gesine’s cookies you are in for a treat. Log on to http://www.gesine.com and order some macaroons.
    They are terrific.

  • eddie

    Do you really think it will make you feel better to bad mouth someone… they got their life just like you have yours who cares how they choose to live it !

  • Jenny

    I feel bad for Sandra and the entire American public. This guy is such an A-hole and now we have to watch him try to change his life. It looks to me like he is marrying Kat because she looks oddly like that chick he has an affair with and he wants to live out some real like sex tattoo fantasy of something! What a dbag!

  • Emily

    Obviously this guy has severe ADD. It won’t be long and his new life will be boring again to him and he’ll be pulled in another direction. Who knows: maybe blonde Playboy types next? I actually think Kat Von D is too good for him, definitely too young for him, and it won’t be long before she realizes the obvious too.

  • Julie

    Wishing Kat the best. Maybe she can keep him on a real short leash!

  • Blaze

    Stacia, yes, I think she resembles Sandra somewhat. I think that Sandra is a wonderful person and I think that it would be nice waking up with a lady like that. The slut side of me thinks that Kat should be screwed every which way and for sure it would be loose. That is the difference. Jessi belongs with a slutty type woman not an angel. I like Kat too, don’t get me wrong, shes just different.

  • jmozer

    if the world turned their backs on jesse then why have they always and are still reporting on this white trash?

  • Lee

    Media loves trash, what would they have to write about. I hate the media, they are like an out house can’t get rid of the crap, you have to dig another hole and they will fill it up too.

  • jakab laszlo

    WHY Would anybody marrying jesse hes not one women
    type a guy he loves to screw around his engagement
    to Kat is a joke she should give the ring back to him
    & tell him to showed where the sun dont shine!!!!

  • http://www.showbiz.com lavada smith

    Jesse James is a mess! He messed up a beautiful thing with Sandra. He need some one on one counseling.

  • tigerlily

    Sandra, zillions of people love and respect you! We will always be here for you…:) You deserve a happy life!

  • http://Yahoo D.M.

    Empty you got that right…empty in the head!! your nothing but a man whore Jesse and Sandra did good when she put the trash on the curb for the garbage truck! Your a worthless PIG and may you have a life time of MISERY! Rotting in hell would be awesome to have happen to you too…

  • Danny

    Not sure why everyone is coming down on Kat. She had nothing to do with the break up of Jesse and Sandra’s marriage. Being a tattoo artist and having tattoos doesn’t make you trash or a whore. The girl makes a damn good living doing what she does. Give her some credit. She isn’t whoring herself out or breaking up a marriage. I would question her taste in men, mainly Jesse. That man is a hibitual cheater, liar, and has some serious hang-ups that Kat can’t fix. Unless he gets some help, their marriage won’t last long either. I feel sorry for his kids.

  • sue

    sandra you are so beautiful and i have got so much love 4 you from zimbabwe. dont rush into rebound relationships. you can be happy on your own. take your time

  • Sohia

    stupid he thinks of himself then his kids first. He should spend some quailty time with them. If he gets married takes it slow. I mean really slow than thinking of his balls.

  • deb

    Seems Jesse was a bit jealous over Sandra’s success when all he had for his own fame was running a garage. He couldn’t stand people knew and liked her more or the fact she made more $ than him. He never had her class either. She has shown what a classy TRUE lady she is during all of this mess. Never once has she badmouthed anyone.

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